K. Michelle Opens Up About Her 8-Month Relationship With Idris Elba On Wendy Williams

K Michelle’s was dodging and weaving a few months ago, when asked if she had a romantic relationship with Idris Elba, but now she’s putting it all out in the open.

This week, she dropped by the Wendy William show, and of course Wendy got to the bottom of things. During the interview, K. admitted to Wendy that her “Maybe I Should Call” video, which featured a man with a new baby, was definitely about Idris Elba. She also revealed that she met the actor last year during the Soul Train Awards, and that the two carried on a relationship before she found out he had a baby on the way. (The Soul Train Awards was in early November and Idris didn’t confirm that he had a child on the way until December).

During the brief chat, she was also asked how she felt about people saying that she lied about Memphitz abusing her, and she dished on her surgeries.

Talk about being an open book!

Peep the highlights and video below:

On getting plastic surgery:

Look, I like to upgrade myself. So I got fat sucked from my stomach and got it put down here for some hips and things like that. And it was a great decision for me. I like putting on my jeans and seeing my badonkadonk in the front. I’m okay with it.

You’re not really suppose to sit down about a week or so [after getting fat injected into your butt] so you’re sleeping like this…but all for beauty, baby! It’s all for beauty. So it works out.

On Memphitz and being called a liar when the deposition leaked:

For me, I think [being called a liar] was one of the more hurtful things. To take a stand and to say, ‘You know what, I’m gonna talk about the abuse that I went through.’ For me, beating your behind or whatever you wanna call it, comes in a lot of different forms. And for me, if I was drugged and smothered with a towel and drug across the ground and I’m screaming for help, ‘Please don’t kill me,’ I mean, I think that was a little bit of abuse.

It’s been really difficult to see every city every city I go to for promo, I go to a shelter and I go talk to women. And the same women that you’re fighting for can become the same women that are poking at you and calling you a liar. And that’s what makes women not want to come out and talk about it.

On Memphitz suing her for defamation:

He’s suing me. We never said his name [on Love & Hip Hop Atlanta.] He’s suing me. He doesn’t have a job, so I’m the job. So, I’m very confident from what’s been going on that I will be vindicated in this. And I’ll finally get my life back.

On her relationship with Idris Elba:

It was like an eight-month situation. I never thought that I would like him either. I thought his jeans were too tight and his accent was kinda funny. No offense to the UK, it was just different for me.

I met him at the [2013] Soul Train Awards and we just clicked. People aren’t always what they seem. He’s not a bad person at all. He has a ratchet side. He cleans up nicely, but he’s very down-to-earth and fun.

On why they no longer talk:

There was a situation. He has a child and I’m not getting in the way of that and I’m not gonna be walking around here — y’all not gon’ get me and call me ‘The Homewrecker’ or any of that. So me, I desire a lot of attention and time, so when there’s a newborn, you have to give that time and attention to that child.

When I met him, I did find out he had a woman pregnant, but I did not know the extent of that situation that was going on. So I kinda looked up and I kinda was like the side chick and kinda looked in the mirror and was like, ‘Girl, you done paid all this money for this work. You can’t be the side chick. Something is going on.’ But throughout it all, he has remained a gentleman.

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